Sorry everyone I realise im 3weeks behind,  its all been a little mental.
Ive started to catch up with everything thats happened and will start posting properly again tomorrow and bring it all up to date in the next couple of days.  So be aware if u think ive jumped at all there may be more that one post per day while I catch up.

Just a quickie tho he has had the operation now and is doing ok.  Shall fill in all the details when I do this weeks.